The Reading Culture

Gayle Forman

Written by Jordan Lloyd Bookey | Jun 25, 2025 7:00:00 AM

What does it mean to rise to the occasion, not once, but over and over again? Sometimes it means reckoning with grief. Other times it means stumbling forward, messing up, and trying again. And sometimes it means simply showing up, imperfect, but still trying to be better.

 

“Those moments of connection when you can have them with people who seem so different from you on the outside, I really do think that it braids a level of connectiveness and empathy, and it is much harder to harden your heart.” — Gayle Forman

Gayle Forman is the bestselling author of If I Stay, Frankie & Bug, Not Nothing, Afterlife and more. Whether it’s Mia in If I Stay, Alex in Not Nothing, or Amber in Afterlife, her characters often walk a jagged path toward healing, falling short, trying again, and inching closer to the people they hope to become.

In this episode, Gayle talks about growing up as a self-described “odd duck,” the Ramona books that shaped her childhood and parenting, and the formative years she spent traveling solo. She opens up about why she is so drawn to flawed characters and how fiction became a way to survive grief and stay connected to the people she has lost.

 

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For her reading challenge, Flawed, Gayle is going to bat for the prickly, messy, not-here-to-be-liked protagonists. She points out that kids are used to reading about heroes, but it can be just as powerful, maybe even more so, to read about characters who fall short and grow anyway. Download the reading challenge below!

 

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This week’s Beanstack Featured Librarian is Lori Shallio, media specialist at Heritage Intermediate School in Middlebury, Indiana. She shares how a Hot Ones-style challenge involving her principal and spicy nuggets helped students smash their community reading goal.

 

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Listen to the full episode, "Slow Reveal: Gayle Forman on Friends, Flaws, and Finding Immortality," on Apple, Spotify, Castbox, or wherever you get your podcasts. Like what you hear? Please leave a 5-star review, subscribe, and share with someone who will enjoy it!


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Contents
  • Chapter 1 - What We Carry
  • Chapter 2 - Odd Ducks
  • Chapter 3 - Top School, Bottom Marks
  • Chapter 4 - Beezus and Ramona
  • Chapter 5 - University of Life
  • Chapter 6 - What We Share
  • Chapter 7 - Mind the Gap
  • Chapter 8 - Embrace It
  • Chapter 9 - Rise to the Occasion
  • Chapter 10 - Reading Challenge
  • Chapter 11 - Beanstack Featured Librarian

Author Reading Challenge

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